Picture someone dangling off the edge of a
cliff—fingers cramping, arms trembling, sheer panic in their eyes. They’re
convinced that if they let go, they’ll plummet to their death. But just three
feet below? A sturdy ledge. Solid ground. Safety. All they have to do is
release their grip.
That’s us. Clinging to control, comfort, and our
carefully curated lives—terrified that surrender equals disaster. But Jesus
says in Matthew 10:39, “Whoever clings to his life will lose it, but whoever
gives it up for My sake will find it.” It’s one of His most upside-down truths.
And it messes with our logic.
We’re wired to preserve ourselves. The world teaches
us to protect, promote, and hold tight to what we’ve built. But Jesus invites
us to let go—for His sake—and promises that in doing so, we’ll discover real
life. Eternal life. Abundant life.
Letting go feels like losing. We grip our plans,
possessions, and identities like lifelines. What if God’s plan doesn’t match my
dream? What if I give something up and never get it back? What if God sends me
somewhere I don’t want to go? Deep down, we fear that surrender will leave us
empty.
But here’s the freeing truth: what we’re clinging to
isn’t nearly as secure as we think. Health, wealth, relationships,
success—they’re all fragile. Jesus offers a better trade: our temporary,
breakable life for His eternal, unshakable one. And when we finally loosen our
grip, we don’t fall into chaos—we fall into grace. Into the arms of the One who
knows us best and loves us most.
A missionary once described how villagers caught
monkeys using a hollowed-out gourd tied to a tree, filled with sweet nuts. The
hole was just big enough for a monkey to slip its hand in—but once it grabbed
the nuts, it couldn’t pull its fist out unless it let go. The hunters didn’t
chase or harm it. They simply waited. The monkey trapped itself.
That’s us again. Hanging from cliffs. Fists clenched
around dreams, fears, and illusions of control. But Jesus isn’t asking us to
fall—He’s asking us to trust. To release what we cannot keep and receive what
we cannot lose.
Today, may the Lord give you courage to open your hands. To let go. To fall—not into emptiness, but into the fullness of His life. Because losing your life for His sake isn’t loss at all—it’s the greatest gain you’ll ever know.













